My ex bf and I broke up around christmas, and for financial reasons, angry/scary landlord reasons/ me not wanting to live there alone reasons, we decided we would both stay until feb 4th (which is when my new apt. is ready.)
BUT. until now, we’ve been really respecful of eachother, still doing nice things for eachother (like me cooking dinner, him letting me use his car while mine is in the shop). Last night, I walked into our bedroom and he was talking really quietly to a girl on the phone, and cut it short as soon as I walked in. I heard that it was a female voice on the other end. He keeps saying it was his friend Dan. I told him I knew he was lying, and that I heard the voice, and he still doesnt respect me enough to admit he was talking to a woman. My issue is, he broke up with me, and I still have strong feelings for him. So him talking to other people even though we aren’t “together” hurts and I feel like he could have just waited a couple weeks.
So, should I tell him to move out this week because I deserve better treatment, or let him stay as we agreed, and not lose out on his share of rent, and tell him as long as we are living together to keep his personal life out of our home.

Like I said, we have been really respectful as of now, we dont hate eachother and the breakup is best for both of us. There is no fighting or screaming or crying, and he is helping me move into and paint my new apt. (and he even wants to share a storage unit, which I’m not actually going to do, because i realize we need to just have a clean break). but it does hurt hearing him talk to other women. I KNOW its over I KNOW he’s not MINE but it HURTS. But my wallet will hurt if he leaves early.

You see? Oh and FYI, I already know its unhealthy and toxic to live with an ex. things like this happen. I know.